By: Zachary Draves
A highly disturbing video surfaced of former NBA player Delonte West being beaten up and left on the side of the street.
What is just as disturbing is that a police officer shot the video of an angry and desperate Delonte after the beating and posted it online.
The reaction to the video was swift, with much of it being harsh, nasty, and dismissive toward Delonte.
Thankfully, there was a significant outpouring of support and compassion to him from many NBA players and others.
That alone signifies an enormous shift in the larger discussion around mental health.
For too long, mental illness has been stigmatized, criminalized, and those living with it have been marginalized.
The fact that someone had the audacity to film Delonte West during a crisis moment with no regard for his humanity or his safety and decided to interrogate him on film and showcase it to the whole world, is a prime example of a clear degradation of people living with mental illness.
Another point is that on the tape as Delonte was being attacked, nobody stopped to intervene in any way.
What does that say about who we are?
Delonte, who had played with the Boston Celtics, Dallas Mavericks, Cleveland Cavaliers, the former Seattle SuperSonics, was diagnosed with bipolar disorder in 2008.
His struggles became apparent throughout different times during his playing career.
He also had financial hardships that included working at Home Depot during the 2011 NBA lockout just to pay the bills.
Given this latest incident, what should be talked about at this time is what is to be done going forward so that Delonte and others are given the space to heal and the access to resources.
As well as for that to occur sooner rather than later.
In other words, we shouldn’t have to respond when it is during a crisis moment for us to care about a person’s difficulties.
The NBA has a real opportunity to step up and provide Delonte with help.
After all, the league has been leading the way forward on destigmatizing mental illness more than any other professional sports league.
They have a current policy in place where each team is required to have a mental health professional on staff who is with the players on a consistent basis.
This came about after players such as Royce White, Metta World Peace (formerly Ron Artest), Kevin Love, DeMar DeRozan and others spoke openly about their struggles and called on the league to do more.
The same approach has to be applied to Delonte.
The response from fellow players who rallied around him and called out the viciousness on social media is a good indication that the brotherhood in the NBA is very strong.
In a league, that is essentially run by the players, who have taken it upon themselves to have greater say in almost every aspect of their careers, that united front among each other won’t be broken.
This can be an example to talk about the intersections of race, class, and gender as it relates to mental illness.
That is to say, we need to look at mental health in the African American community, who have historically been oppressed and viciously stigmatized by the mental health profession.
That requires an understanding of history, a sustained effort to work with the community on addressing the issue, understanding the link between racism and mental illness, hiring more African American mental health professionals, and implementing culturally competent strategies and responses to mental health-related issues.
In addition, there needs to be a look at the link between financial hardship and mental illness.
For example, many people who are homeless who struggle with a mental health issue are rendered invisible because of public policies that deny them access to affordable housing, health care, employment, and assistance.
Followed up by regressive policies that criminalize their condition and them being homeless which in turn places them in the criminal justice system which adds additional hardship and barriers to their lives.
Also, some who have contemplated, or attempted, or succeeded in dying by suicide, much of it was due to financial reasons.
There needs to be better access to essential services and needs and better policies in place that reflect a broader effort to destigmatize and decriminalize those falling on hard times.
Finally, the ongoing conversation about how rigid definitions of manhood contribute to mental health issues needs to strengthen.
Men deserve to be in a position where they can acknowledge vulnerability as a way to show other males that there is nothing weak about saying I need help or I’m hurting or that I’m sad.
The NBA must intervene in any way it can so that Delonte West can recover and live his life.
It is incumbent on all of us to continue the conversation, to let others know that they are not alone, that it is OK to not be OK, and that there is help.
Our thoughts with Delonte West and we will not forget him and so many others who are in pain.
If you need any help and are in need to talk to someone, here is a list of much-needed resources.
National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) https://www.nami.org/
Mental Health America https://www.mhanational.org/
NBA Cares Mind Health https://cares.nba.com/mindhealth/
National Institute of Mental Health https://www.nimh.nih.gov/index.shtml
Depression and Bipolar Support Alliance https://www.dbsalliance.org/
American Foundation for Suicide Prevention https://afsp.org/
National Suicide Prevention Hotline https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ 1-800-273-8255
The Trevor Project https://www.thetrevorproject.org/ 1-866-488-7386
Black Mental Health Alliance https://blackmentalhealth.com/
Jed Foundation https://www.jedfoundation.org/
National Association of Social Workers https://www.socialworkers.org/
Alliance for Social Workers in Sports https://www.aswis.org/
American Psychological Association https://www.apa.org/
American Psychiatric Association https://www.psychiatry.org/
I am sick and tired od people when they hear or read about someone’s dire situation as is the case with Delonte West. People worried about who’s braiding his hair. Are you serious right now??!! Mental illness is nothing to joke about. We all need to realize that there’s a very thin line between sanity and insanity. Bipolar disorder and depression is something that’s affecting many people, and if not address as soon as there’s sign of the illness, it can end up leading to a person taking their own lives. How can we not feel empathy for a fellow human being? Regardless of whether he’s a former NBA star or not, many like him are out there needing help. Parents, family members,friends,please seek help for your those related to us, anyone who you are in contact with and you become aware of their issues, please please seek help for them; even if you have to go to court and have them forcefully committed, do what you have to do for them. We’re loosing too many people to this dreaded desease, namely, mental illness in it’s many forms. It’s nothing to joke about. None of us know where life will take us in this ratched world we live in. Take heed and show compassion for each other. Life, sanity and the pursue of happiness is not a guarantee. Please be kind to one another regardless of race, nationality, creed or color, we all share the same blood, we all have the same mind; and believe it or not, we share the same air we breathe. Regardless of our educational background, our financial status, none of us are immune to what ill will life blows our way, life happens. Remember that!!